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10 to do in May

admin — Thu, 22 Jul 2010 20:11:48 +0000

For the last few months, I’ve been playing along with a group of folks over at BlogHer who’ve formed a group called “List Lovers Unite.” I’m a sucker for “to do” lists and I’ve found the practice of making monthly to do lists to be rather compelling.

Sticking to the list, however, has yielded mixed results. Here’s how I did with April’s list (as with previous months, completed tasks are in blue, partially done tasks are in green and the tasks I didn’t even started in purple):

1. Write a first draft of the short story I’ve been kicking around. (I wrote an outline)

2. Spend an average of eight hours writing per week. (Not even close)

3. Do strength training at least once a week and continue with the five hours of cardio per week. (I’m very pleased to have started the strength training, which I did, for at least a few minutes, five times in four weeks. I fell a couple of hours short with the cardio, though. I need to remind myself on rainy days that I’m not made of sugar).

4. Sort through my clothes (carried over from February and March). (I bought some clothes but my closet is still overflowing with stuff I can’t or don’t wear).

5.Make summer plans for my family. (we are going to Blue SkiesMusic Festival this year and have tentatively planned another couple of trips but I have yet to sit down with a calendar and nail it all down)

6. Brush my big (shedding) dog once a week and my smaller (non-shedding, tangling) dog every other day. (I brushed the big dog once and the little one twice. I did take Lucy to the groomer on Tuesday, though. She’s been shorn now, so now I really only have ears and tail to brush for a while)

7. Update my Ravelry project page.

8. Finish another scarf.

9. Make soup twice. (the jambalaya in the slow cooker when I wrote last month’s post was the only soup I made. It was a good one, though)

10. Get a hair cut. (Done. And I feel much better with shorter hair)

I did get something done that had been on my previous month’s to do list. I bought a bathing suit. And then I wrote about it for BlogHer and even posted a photo of myself.

I’m still reeling from that one.

Around the middle of the month, I realized was feeling very grumpy. I figured out that I was unhappy because, while I wasn’t necessarily getting anything done, I also wasn’t having any fun. I had to remind myself that, as I’m the one attempting to give my life more structure, I’m also the one who needs to give myself permission to be flexible.

When I drew up my goals for this month, I decided to incorporate time to read, relax and be creative (a bit ironic, I know) and to set aside time to specifically attack this list.

Things to do in May:

1. Spend an average of eight hours writing a week (I’m already behind. Sigh. I have started to edit the first draft of my novel, though, so that’s something).

2. Do strength training at least twice every week (Did it once last week, so I’m behind there too).

3. Do an average of five hours of cardio every week (On track. Yay!)

4. Make soup twice (I’ve already made and eaten a big batch of sweet potato, red lentil and spinach soup).

5. Sort through my clothes (carried over from February, March and April – but I really do want to get this done).

6. Finish making summer plans for my family.

7. Go to at least one bike store and do some test rides (That should be fun. Also, my bike has started to make some pretty scary noises when I pedal or change gears).

8. Spend one afternoon every week doing something fun or relaxing (Last week, I spent part of Mothers’ Day finishing Water for Elephants, which I loved reading. This week, I’ll spend Thursday afternoon either reading or knitting. I need to make the space in my life to do the things that restore my energy and my creativity).

9. Finish one knitting project (I made a bunch of dish clothes and a dish towel for a friend and gave them to her, so this one’s done already).

10. Spend one afternoon per week just dealing with this to-do list (last week it was Wednesday and this week it will be Wednesday, too).

Anyone else out there still working on the monthly list? How’s it working for you?

the calm after the storm

admin — Thu, 15 Jul 2010 16:55:50 +0000

things are good. both moves went well, and our stuff is on its way across the ocean to the mainland. our apartment is now devoid of everything except for an air mattress and some clothes. and hubby is doing awesome for the time being.

10 days till we’re back on the mainland!!

10 things to do in april

admin — Tue, 13 Jul 2010 00:21:05 +0000

This month, I actually wrote up my 10 things and posted them over at BlogHer on April 1st. And then, I let chemo and the long Passover/Easter weekend sidetrack me. I seem to be somewhat lacking in motivation on the blogging front these days.

I have lots to say but I don’t always feel like saying it.

Perhaps blogging should be on my list of May ‘to-do’s.

For now, though, here is how I did in March (completed in blue, partially done in green and not even started in purple):

1. Finish re-reading the draft of my novel (carried over from February). I discovered when I reached the end of the document that I had just stopped writing when I’d written the required 50,000 words. The story has no end. And needs some serious editing. That will be a goal for a future month.

2. Organize my clothes and my closet (carried over from February).

3. Graft the toes on the socks I’m knitting for my sister (carried over from February). It barely took an hour to finish these suckers. Should have done it ages ago. Now my sister will have some nice wool socks, just in time for summer.

4. Do an average of 5 hours of cardio exercise every week (Revised from February).Really, this should almost be in blue. I fell short by less than an hour, so I’m pretty pleased with myself.

5. Make soup once. Sweet potato, spinach, red lentil. It was a recipe from my nutrionist (see below) and it was yummy.

6. Spend an average of 10 hours writing per week. I permitted myself to write this in green because I did do some writing in March but I didn’t even come close to reaching my goal. I blogged 10 times and wrote in my journal with reasonable consistency but that was pretty much it.

7. Make and keep an appointment with a nutritionist to work out a plan to improve my diet, then follow it. I did do this one and have begun to make some changes to my diet. And, although I fell pretty much completely off the wagon over the long weekend, that was in April so it doesn’t count.

8. Get my bike back on the road. It’s been tuned up and ridden. When the weather is nice, I am going to continue to make my bike my main form of transportation.

9. Mend/wash/block my hand knit scarves. There are five of them. Three are mine and one is an unfinished present. None of them should take very long and it would give me a tremendous sense of accomplishment. Update: After stepping away from this and considering what I have on my plate, if I get two scarves done, I will be happy. I finished one. Now it needs to be delivered to the recipient.

10. Buy a swimsuit that fits (ugh). I tried on a couple of swimsuits but didn’t find any that comfortably fit my long torsoed, plus-sized, one breasted body. I initially thought I would carry this one over to April but have changed my mind. This one’s traumatic and will be a longer term project.

So that makes (more or less) 5 finished tasks, 4 partially completed and one not yet begun.

I’m really enjoying this process. I’m getting things done that I might not otherwise. It’s gving me a sense of structure and accomplishment.

Here is my list for April:

1. Write a first draft of the short story I’ve been kicking around (I have a writing buddy now, who’s going to give me feedback. I have promised to deliver something for her to read by the end of the month).

2. Spend an average of eight hours writing per week (I’m already behind but it’s not too late to catch up).

3. Do strength training at least once a week and continue with the five hours of cardio per week (I am on track with the cardio but have done one set of situps exactly once, so I need to get moving on the strength training).

4. Sort through my clothes (carried over from February and March).

5.Make summer plans for my family.

6. Brush my big (shedding) dog once a week and my smaller (non-shedding, tangling) dog every other day (the little dog has been brushed twice, which is probably twice more than she was groomed in March).

7. Update my Ravelry project page.

8. Finish another scarf.

9. Make soup twice (I have a jambalaya stew in the slow cooker right now).

10. Get a hair cut.

It’s not too late to play along!

on the canal

admin — Sat, 10 Jul 2010 10:11:38 +0000

I like to say that “I moved to Ottawa kicking and screaming.” I loved living in Toronto and only moved because my spouse’s short term contracts had led to longer term work and I had quit my job.

But then I fell in love with the place. And yesterday’s adventure skating sums up why.

It was a beautiful sunny day, unseasonably warm for February. On impulse, I grabbed my skates and headed over to the canal.

When I hit the ice, I found myself giggling like a little kid. My calves were burning (and when they loosened up my thighs took over. My butt still hurts today) but it was fun.

There were folks out skating in office clothes (including at least one guy in a full suit and tie) and a teenager turning cartwheels on the ice. There were little kids that looked too young to walk, gliding past me. And there were other adults wobbling along or holding the hands of more stable skaters. There were people of all races, ages, shapes and sizes – all out enjoying the sunshine and the joy of movement.

A little more than an hour after I left the house, I returned to drop off my skates and ran to catch the bus that would take me to an appointment. I was hot and sweaty. And happy, too.

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